Understand Your INFJ Personality

As INFJs we have soft and squishy hearts. When someone says something to use we take it straight to heart. There is no natural filter that i

INFJs are portrayed to be sweet and happy people who are always there to help those around them. That’s not always true. INFJs have a dark a

Many INFJs want to make changes in their lives but feel stuck. They get stuck in planning mode and struggle with making the changes that the

I talk to a lot of INFJs who struggle with taking care of themselves. I know that I certainly do as well. I am the last person that I want t

When I was young, people used to ask me, “Why are you so quiet?” I used to hate it. What are you supposed to say to that? What could they po

As INFJs we are naturally focused on the people around us. It’s so easy for us to sort through their problems and find a simple solution to

I have been a magnet for narcissists my whole life. I have attracted those people who are toxic to my mental, emotional and ultimately physi

Let’s be honest, there are a lot of things that INFJs can’t stand. Because we are so aware of our surroundings and constantly analyzing what

INFJs are prone to perfectionism. We are always looking at problems and situations to find the best solution. We see all sides of things and

INFJs are natural counselors and natural givers. We are always more concerned about the people around us and the people we love than we are

For as long as I can remember I have been told that I need to have more self-confidence. My mom said it would help me make friends, teachers

My whole life I have been different from everyone I know. I was always told that I was wrong for feeling the things I felt or for wanting to

So many people have contacted me and said that they want to do something, but they don’t have the courage to do it. They don’t think that th

I hate the feeling of failure. I’m all about that INFJ perfectionism. I want to do everything right on the first try, the first shot. I love

I have 2 friends; we’ll call them Annabelle and Betsy. Both of them are good friends of mine, but they have decided that they don’t like eac

INFJs are motivated by a strong set of personal values and the desire to make the world a better place, for others and themselves. I am cons

The INFJ personality is one of deep feeling and caring for others. We always put others first. We are our friends and family’s counselor, al

“Perfectionistic – INFJs are all but defined by their pursuit of ideals. While this is a wonderful quality in many ways, an ideal situation

Balance has always been a concept that I have struggled with. I am an all-or-nothing type of person. I’m either all in or all out, I eat all