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Ready to Run
I think I’m her. Not in the “I think I’ll get married” kind of way, but in the “I’m sure” wait, “I have no idea” kind of way.

sarahbkuhn
May 275 min read


How to Overcome Perfectionism
Perfectionism is another word for fear.
It’s your own beliefs holding you back. It’s your own fear of failure, of not being enough

sarahbkuhn
Oct 17, 20235 min read


Why Most INFJs Never Find Their Purpose in Life
Finding your purpose is like a rite of passage for INFJs. We feel like we have this higher calling like there's some big thing that we're su

sarahbkuhn
Jul 4, 202321 min read


How to Identify Your Needs & Communicate Them Better as an INFJ
INFJs are notoriously bad at identifying our own needs. We live in the world of future dreams and predictions and other people’s feelings.

sarahbkuhn
Nov 2, 20214 min read


My INFJ Happiness Project
Every day is Groundhog Day at my house. I get up at the same time, brush my teeth the same way, order the same coffee from Starbucks, sit at

sarahbkuhn
Oct 25, 20214 min read


Dealing with Phony People at Work
A few years ago my niece was watching The Office. She kept telling me how funny it was and insisting that I watch it too. So, in an effort t

sarahbkuhn
Aug 2, 20217 min read


Is the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator Personality Test Wrong?
There are some people who believe that the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator personality test is wrong, but does that mean that it actually is?

sarahbkuhn
Jul 28, 20213 min read


INFJ Ni-Ti Loop
The INFJ Ni-Ti loop is when INFJs get stuck using their Introverted Intuition (Ni) function with their Introverted Thinking (Ti) function wh

sarahbkuhn
Jul 23, 20213 min read


Pushing Past Your Limits for INFJs
About 8 weeks ago my favorite podcaster announced that she was hosting a course. She’s hosted this course a few times and every time she doe

sarahbkuhn
Jul 17, 20216 min read


Relentless Understanding
Understanding is the key to every problem you have. You have to understand before you can do anything else. But you can’t just have surface-

sarahbkuhn
Jun 23, 20216 min read


INFJ Strengths & Weaknesses: Improving Your Weaknesses, Part 1
It’s dangerous for INFJs to talk about our weaknesses. We like to fix things so when we talk about things that we’re not good at we immediat

sarahbkuhn
Jun 3, 20218 min read


Avoiding Unnecessary Pain
INFJs spend the majority of our lives trying to avoid unnecessary pain. We have an amazing ability to see the future, but it also gives us t

sarahbkuhn
Apr 20, 20216 min read


Introverts are NOT Broken Extroverts
Someone posted a question in the INFJ community this week that got me thinking a bit. The post said, “Which introvert type best describes yo

sarahbkuhn
Mar 8, 20205 min read


The Persistent INFJ
I’ve had a rough couple of weeks. I decided to change my website host to a new and cheaper one. It gave me more features for a lot less mone

sarahbkuhn
Feb 9, 20205 min read


8 Tips For Dating in Your 30s, From a Relationship Coach Who Knows
Here are my tips for dating for MBTI INFJs in your 30s, based on my experience

sarahbkuhn
Jan 27, 20204 min read


How to Overcome Impostor Syndrome as an INFJ
As INFJs we struggle a lot with knowing who we are. We have a tendency to be a different version of ourselves around different people, cater

sarahbkuhn
Jan 19, 20206 min read


20 things INFJs Need to Accomplish in 2020
Not only is 2020 a new year, but it’s a brand new decade as well. It feels like an even bigger fresh start. It’s a time to sit back and thin

sarahbkuhn
Jan 4, 20206 min read


Top 10 Misconceptions about INFJs
INFJs are the rarest MBTI personality type, making up only 1-3% of the population. Because we are so rare there are many misconceptions abou

sarahbkuhn
Dec 22, 20194 min read


The Manipulative INFJ
INFJs are masters at being manipulative. We have an amazing intuition that we use naturally to help us read people. We know what they want a

sarahbkuhn
Dec 14, 20198 min read


How to Deal with Criticism as an INFJ
As INFJs we have soft and squishy hearts. When someone says something to use we take it straight to heart. There is no natural filter that i

sarahbkuhn
Dec 7, 20193 min read
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